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Maybe it's your class at the horse show. Maybe it's a trail ride you've been dreaming of, but the butterflies are going crazy in your stomach & your mind is racing thinking of that spook you barely made it through last time.
Now imagine the same scenario — only this time, as soon as you feel that uncertainty show up, you reach for a mindset tool that quickly calms your nerves, gets you focused, present, & at your best. Sound good?
Sweet friend, that's exactly what's inside these pages.
The Mindset Playbook for Horsewomen Who Are Done Second-Guessing Themselves & Ready to Ride With Complete Trust in Themselves.
A slim 44-page handbook — your coach in your pocket — that teaches three 5-minute-or-less reset tools you can use anywhere, from the truck to the warm-up pen. Plus the full Confidence Mastery Toolkit so you have something to reach for in every kind of moment.
Most riders treat all three the same & try to push through. Inside, I'll teach you to tell them apart — so you stop fighting the protective fear that's trying to keep you alive, & stop obeying the anxious fear that's just an old story playing on a loop. This is the foundation. Without it, the tools don't stick.
The FoundationThree power words you choose (mine are Calm. Confident. Connected.) & a Word Swap practice that catches the sabotaging self-talk & flips it. 30 seconds at the gate. Your brain learns in pictures — so the words rebuild the picture before you ever pick up a rein.
Tool #1 · 30 SecondsAmy Cuddy's Wonder Woman pose, adapted for horsewomen. Two minutes. Stand tall, hands on hips, head up. Backed by science — it actually changes your body chemistry before you've even touched a rein. Your horse meets a different woman at the mounting block.
Tool #2 · 2 MinutesNot the airy-fairy kind. This version teaches you to see yourself handling problems as they come up — the spook, the bolt, the bobble — & handling them with confidence. Your brain stores the rehearsal as memory. When the plastic bag actually does blow across the arena, your body says, "Oh, I've handled this before" — because in your mind, you have.
Tool #3 · 5 MinutesThis is the chapter that turns the tools into an identity shift. The chapter where you'll meet the version of me who self-sabotaged at every "big" show since I was 16 & finally rode to a World Championship with a screw quietly working its way out of my bit the whole class. It's permission to be unfinished & still extraordinary.
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...until I felt like I would choke — all those years of struggle, finally demanding to be felt. I was in France, participating in a once-in-a-lifetime coaching session with the great horse trainer & creator of Cavalia, Frédéric Pignon.
"You have a nice way about you with the horses... but, you have to learn to trust yourself."
— Frédéric Pignon
He was so kind. In another circumstance, the words might not have stung, but it hit me hard. In his wisdom, he had seen right through me. And suddenly the blinders I'd worn for so long came off & I could see the secret that was so clear to everyone else but me.
At that time, I couldn't even think of a time I had completely trusted myself in or out of the saddle. I was always unsure. All through high school. Every time I rode. Every time I met new people. Every time I showed my horse.
And here's what's wild — by then, I had already shown horses most of my life. I'd coached other riders to wins. My grandfather trained horses in the Cavalry. I came from this. But, I had notoriously self-sabotaged at every "big" show I rode in since I was 16. (I say "lol" with nervous laughter, because it really isn't funny to work so hard to prepare & then screw up.)
That little book in your hands is the conversation I wish someone had had with me in France — without me having to fly there.
"Personally, this book was a game-changer. After a decade away from riding & driving, I used the tools shared here to reclaim my confidence & reconnect with my horses in a way I thought was lost to me. It gave me the clarity I craved, the courage I needed, & the joy of partnership I thought I'd never experience again."
— Heather H.
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"I now understand how my mindset affects our performance — & better yet, there is a clear path to making great improvement. I can't wait to dig into the educational opportunities HorseGirl.me provides. The best is yet to come!"
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Sweet friend — if we haven't met...
I'm Jenny Rohlen. You might know me as the creator of HorseGirl.me, the Equestrian Planner, or as co-creator of The Cannon Method. But if we've never crossed paths — I'm just a horse girl like you, & my whole life still revolves around horses.
I'm a 2x World Champion. I'm 59. I came from a show horse background — my grandfather trained horses in the Cavalry. And for most of my riding life, I've felt the same fear, doubt & pressure you might be feeling right now.
I created this little handbook to share the exact tools that helped me go from "barely able to leave the driveway" kind of anxiety to riding into a World Championship with complete trust in myself. These aren't fluff tips. They're real mindset resets that transformed my horsemanship & honestly? They changed my life.
I live in beautiful small-town Southern Illinois with my horses — back on the family farm where I rode in endless circles as a kid & dreamed of being a horse trainer someday. Funny how dreams have a way of finding their way back to you.
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